An old friend of mine was in town this weekend and so we got to spend
some time together, which was very nice. It’s funny: we
don’t agree about a lot of things (the joke is that each
thinks the other completely, horribly, awfully wrong about
everything—save for the things we agree on), but nonetheless
we’d a very pleasant day (yesterday evening & most of
today).
Something I’ve realised with Shaima’s visit, and my own
visit to see Phil & Jess in Texas (along with all the others I saw)
is that friends—not acquaintances, but real
friends—are one of the few key things in life.
It’s not so much the frequency that one sees them, but that one
sees them at all, that one has a few kindred spirits out there.
C.S. Lewis wrote much more eloquently on φιλία than I ever could, and
his words are worth reading.
One of the bad things about seeing one’s friends so rarely,
though, is that it takes time to fall back into things, although as I’ve
noted given a short amount of time it all works out. That’s
definitely an issue which more time together rather than apart would
help.
So if someone would just break the laws of the universe and invent a
teleporter so that I might see my friends every week, no matter where on
the globe they are, I’d be much obliged.